You can’t control how others live their lives and the sooner you break free of that need the more at peace with them you will be. Let them make their own mistakes and you can provide comfort to them when they fall but you can’t warn them off doing something stupid. When it comes to your love life, start taking your own advice.
You may find that it’s easier to charm flies with honey. The more pleasant you make things for your adversaries the less likely they are to go on the attack. Having to fight for what you believe is the best for all concerned proves more difficult than you could have imagined. But you are on the rails, riding smooth.
An argument here or there is one thing but an all-out confrontation is entirely another. Find your own ground zero, where exactly the worst attack took place and then start to rebuild from there. If you have never found your own inner freedom everything will always be locked up in a little box.
Your patience will pay off big time if you don’t jump the gun. Look for what you hear of from other sources. Don’t be close-minded to what falls right in your lap. See every day as a gift now more than ever. Now can never be repeated. Every moment is a unique opportunity to have a good experience. Even when it rains buckets of crap.
You find a marvelous way of working through your problems and are showing some great examples of character and courage. You are surprising everyone with how responsible you can be. On the other hand, you can’t let the things you love spiral out of control. It is better, maybe, to keep an eye on what you’re letting lose as well as what you’re keeping in.
Practice what you preach and you will get where you want to be. You can’t take back good memories. You can forget bad ones. You ought not to hold against someone you loved a bad choice they made. Don’t forget to fully research something before you buy.
You ought to be proud of all that you’ve accomplished given your rough beginnings. People like you don’t come around very often and deserve only the very best life has to offer. Hopefully, your dreams will come true and all will go smoothly with an upcoming meeting.
A war within has you betwixt and between on making a great big decision that impact your life. You want to have it all but in this case that’s not possible. You have to give up something. As long as you protect the most important part of yourself you’ll be having the best of both worlds.
You do your best to put up boundaries but sometimes people find a way to knock them down anyway. And if you like someone enough you will ignore the early signs that set off lights in your brain – warning, warning. Practice honoring your own boundaries by listening when alerts go off. The new year will bring a delightful surprise.
The person you thought was lost forever has come back into your fold but you have to be careful how much time you spend with him or her – remember that they have the power to hurt you. On the other hand, you hit a creative high point this year so that’s something to look forward to.
Every once in a while you might find a predator has entered your life without anyone even knowing it. They will look like a normal person and act like a normal and convince everyone that they are good and honest but they aren’t. You don’t have any way of protecting yourself other than to trust your instinct. Listen to that little worried voice inside.
Piecing your life back together after such a devastating wave of destruction has been anything but easy. It won’t be too long, however, before things start looking up. It will turn out that the bad stuff was really a blessing in disguise – a shift that needed to take place to point you in the right direction – your path will be easier from here.